We often become obsessed with
owning the perfect vehicle, wearing the trendiest brand of clothing, and
vacationing at exotic destinations. For
people who have encountered a disaster in their lives, their focus and attitude
change. Suddenly, all this “stuff” doesn’t matter. Their perspective shifts to more concrete
things in life: their happiness, health, and family – to name a few treasures.
Richard Smelski, a farmer
in the Shakespeare, Ontario area with over 35 years of agribusiness experience provided
permission to reprint his article which appeared in Better Pork’s February
edition. Hakuna matata: A good philosophy for life is an interesting
read that provides a different look on life.
Enjoy the moment, for few can appreciate the beauties. |
Hakuna matata: a good philosophy for life
By Richard Smelski
As farmers and pork
producers, we face a number of challenges and stressors. But, we also have a number of blessings and
opportunities. Enjoy the moment.
Hakuna matata ("Hakuna matata" is a Swahili phrase, roughly translated "don't worry, be happy") was made famous through the animated movie The Lion King. What do you believe - that happiness comes from within you or is it imposed upon you? Is happiness an inward or exterior response?
“Bill” is a pork producer,
friend, and mentor of mine. In my usual pursuit of the definition of success, I
asked him, “How can you always be so composed, relaxed and deliberate in
everything you do?”
Very quickly he replied,
“Twenty years ago I was in a car accident. I was broadsided – I was in the
driver’s seat - five ribs broken, bleeding spleen and I couldn’t breathe. I
knew I was going to die and for those few moments, I sat there thinking, ‘If
only I can live, I would always enjoy what I am doing.’ And then I took a
breath.”
Bill manages a very
successful farrow-to-finish operation, 1,100 acres cash crop operation, and he volunteers
a lot. He’s very successful, very generous and - most of all - fun to be with.
He has no desire to be the biggest, the best or the wealthiest, although I
think he ranks among the top in each category. He enjoys life and the pork
business gives him the opportunity to do so.
Bill now enjoys a balance
in his life - how many can say the same? Does it take a disaster to realize the
true blessings in life?
The pig industry, similar
to many industries, is rapidly adapting to respond to concerns of advocacy
groups, labour challenges, price fluctuations, regulation overloads, family
challenges, and health concerns – to name a few influences.
Because these crises become
standard in our business, does not mean that they need to be a standard for our
attitude. Remember the dictionary definition of stress: force applied that
strains or deforms the initial shape. If you cannot accept the new shape and
enjoy it, the stress can break you.
It’s your choice to enjoy
the stress and smile or not. Enjoyment leads to success, not the reverse.
Die
Broke by
Stephen Pollan, a great book that changed my life, proposes we should forget
the idea of spending our entire lives saving and investing with the idea of
idyllic retirement on a beach somewhere. His key principles are: quit today,
pay cash, don’t retire and die broke. “The last cheque you write should be to
the undertaker -- and it should bounce,” says Pollan.
Spend your money while
you’re alive. The practice of accumulating a pile of money to pass on to your
children is built on the mistaken notion that money has value in and of itself.
The reality is that money is a tool; it is a means to an end. Spend your money
while you can appreciate it. Plus, giving a pile of money to your kids can ruin
them. Money or assets might be left to children or grandchildren at key points
of need so the giver as well as receiver can both enjoy the gift.
Enjoy the moment, for few
can appreciate the beauties that farmers take for granted. Nature surrounds us
and we only need to look around to appreciate it.
You work in one of the most
notable and worthy businesses – producing food. Pork producers are blessed with
the opportunity to work in a transparent industry where farmers share their production
techniques, innovations, health protocols, and labour- saving ideas readily. We
take our blessings for granted.
If you couldn’t breathe,
would you wish for anything different than what you are doing right now? Hakuna
matata.